The doctor said I would probably beat this; the percentages were good. I knew others…family, friends, family of friends that didn’t win this battle. Sure they fought and in their exhaustive loss, they stepped through the small opening in the brick wall of the Big “C” but still they wore the chain that could be retracted and for some it was.
I decided not to call it a fight. I decided to partnership with my cancer. I let it have its name. Calling it the Big “C” made it too powerful. We walked together in the afternoon with the setting sun and lapping waves. And when I felt too tired to make my normal length of beach exploring, I sat down and took the time to notice the tiny sand particles between my toes.
I’ve never liked throwing up, does anyone? When I was able to eat, I made sure to truly taste every small bite; the sweetness of zucchini, the bitterness a carrot can have, the earthy juice from beef. Although broth became my daily friend and was easier on the throat coming and going. I’m still trying to figure out the oxymoron of diarrhea and constipation.
When my hair fell out, I cried, but I wore some beautiful scarves that loved ones had gifted; a style I had always liked but was too vain to try. For so many years I was 20-30 pounds overweight, and cancer offered an unwanted but envied weight loss. I’m cold today, a normal for most days as I catch myself drifting from the joys of past to the dreams of my future.
Cancer sat by me last week, when the doctor said I was doing well. I had become comfortable in this reality. I think I’m afraid to walk beyond the wall where “What ifs?” are yelling. But the light of hope, from that small hole in the brick wall, catches my eyes as the chain jingled in my ears.